You’re deriving your entire argument from a photo I posted that I found on 4chan, and half a paragraph? Do you even know why I’m “against guns”? Clearly not, since you think I’m “against guns” at all. Stop talking out your cowardly, anonymous ass.
Bitchy is a gendered word not because of it being used towards men or women, but because the word literally means “female dog”. That’s not the same as a word being gendered because you feel it better suits one gender or the other.
More women have probably been called cows. Does that make it a gendered word?
In the english language, we have no “gendered” words in the literal sense. Any sense of a word being “gendered” is on you, the user, the listener. Same logic behind “pink is a girl color” or “hockey cards are a boy toy.” These things are what YOU make of them. If you’re incapable of referring to a man as bossy, that’s on you and your therapist, not me, and not society.
You’ve seriously never heard a man called bossy? Anywhere? Or do you just ignore it when you hear it because it conflicts with what you think the world is like?
I disagree. Bossy is not a gendered word. Bitchy is gendered, but bossy? Not from my experience.